Illustration by Monica Kim Garza.
Sex Tapes #12
Sex Tapes is a series of up front and anonymous interviews about the sex lives of various women.
Are you in a relationship?
No, I am not.
How often do you have sex?
It is so rare, I miss it so much.
Do you like having sex?
Dah, me and my ex-partner used to have a lot of sex. But we broke up last year and for now my sex-life has stopped.
What’s your favourite thing to do when with a partner?
I guess, two of my favourite things to do with partner was listening to music and having sex. It was cool to do both.
Do you sometimes do things you don’t particularly like? Why?
No, everything was always mutual.
Do you fake orgasms?
I think yes, but it was a rare thing.
Do you masturbate? If yes how often?
Yes, I do. Usually once a day.
Do you cheat on your partners? If yes why?
I didn’t because I was a fool.
Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes, I was. It's hard to accept and monogamy loses its relevance.
What’s the best sex you’ve ever had and why?
Our mutual friend was dying in the hospital. We met to talk and support each other. That night we had the most fierce sex. I loved it when he choked me and slapped me while I painfully bit his hands.
What’s been the worst sex you’ve ever had?
I can't remember. Maybe the first time when we couldn’t get it in.
What do you fantasize about?
I really like public sex. I often imagine it while masturbating.
Would you ever act on your fantasies?
Of course I did. I was an initiator for sex in the gym pool!
What do you wish someone had told you about sex before you started having it?
I would like to know that sex is created for pleasure in the process and not just for the orgasm itself.